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Wednesday, January 05, 2005

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Most of you know that Jeff is married. I have a question for you... Since he is married, does he have to right to get upset if I go on a date with someone else? Can he expect exclusivity if he is married??
Not that there is anyone that would ever replace him, but I have had invitations from several guys that might have been fun to go out with...(including a very hot Mexican guy that has been in town about 6 months, Jesse, who has been asking me out for a long time....LOL) But I didn't want Jeff to get the wrong idea, and get mad... He and I have actually never talked about it, though... Of course, if it was up to me, he would get a divorce and he and I would stay together forever... But it's not up to me... *sigh*...

I thought yesterday's weather was bad... It's 9 degrees, we got quite a bit more ice, and now have snow on top of it... The only thing good about weather like this is if you can stay inside with your Love... If you have to get out in it, it sucks... I had to go to work again at 5:30 am ... Got off at 1:30 and have to go back from 3:30 to about 4:30 so that the manager can drive the 10 miles to another employee's house because she is scared to drive on the slick roads. (wimp) I used to drive for a living... In ice storms, and blizzards, and through huge thunderstorms, at all hours of the day and night... Driving in bad weather is no problem for me...

2 Comments:

Blogger Buffalo said...

In my opinion you are a free agent. In the first place, a person who says they want to be with you full time but.... They are telling you that the but is more important than you. Might sound harsh, and I surely don't know either you or your love interst, however it is a true statement more often than not. In the second place, a person not free to make an equal committment has no right to expect one in return. If they do it seems to me they are playing the control game.

9:29 AM  
Blogger Amethyst Rising said...

Thank you... That was my opinion too... I would love to be with Jeff full time, but I know in my heart that will never happen... and I do want (someday) to get married again... I want to keep my options open...

1:44 PM  

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